Tray, $795; jewellery box, $159.95, jewellery roll, $229, and wallet, $189.95, Betty Hemmings Leathergoods; Dior watch, $7,550, Birks; Scatter My Ashes at Bergdorf Goodman by Sara James Mnookin, $38.50, Indigo; Estée Lauder eyeshadow, $36, Sears